If your child is planning on attending college after they graduate high school, it’s important…
For many high school seniors and their families, the end of April feels like it’s near the end of a long (possibly sweaty) but rewarding hike. May is the summit of 4 long years with final exams, AP tests, and the all-important senior activities to enjoy the end of the journey.
But what will the end of the journey bring?
What Is National College Decision Day?
This Sunday, May 1st is known across the U.S. as College Decision Day 2022 and seniors are making final choices on where they want to go to college. This deadline is shared by many colleges asking their prospective students to commit to attending in the fall and hold their spot with an enrollment deposit, letter of intent, or both. It’s also a day where students across the country share their future plans and excitement on social media or at in-person celebrations.
But how do you and your student know the decision is the right one? What if your family isn’t ready to make that decision?
Here are a few tips for families, no matter where they’re at in their decision process to smooth out the end of the trip.
College Decision Tips: How To Know Whether Or Not Your Student Is Ready To Commit
Ready to Commit Vibes
Here are some indicators that a decision is in order!
- The social aspects of the campus meet your child’s needs and they can visualize themself there. If they haven’t been able to visit the campus, make sure to do a virtual visit. College recruitment brochures are nice but they’re marketing materials designed to show only the best version of the school. You don’t want to be surprised with a call from your baby when they step foot into a non-air-conditioned dorm that’s the size of a mouse house.
- The academics fit your child’s needs and there are several majors they can pursue (*hint* they might change majors while in college). Research and identify supports on campus your child can access like tutoring and mental health services.
- Your family is ready to put down the deposit and secure housing.
- You and your child have a financial plan to pay for college that doesn’t break the bank and you feel at peace.
Once the deposit is made, you’re not done! Check out this blog for other “after admissions” steps.
Not Into It Vibes
If your child isn’t feeling positive about their decision or is missing essential information about their top choice college, there’s still some wiggle room after May 1st to make the decision. There’s also a small window to apply for colleges with openings after May 1st if the academic, social or financial fit isn’t there.
Here are a few situations where delaying a decision might make sense:
- Your family doesn’t have the financial aid package yet. Enrollment deposits are non-refundable so you could lose out if you commit to a college without knowing what financial choices you’ll be making. Triage this issue by calling financial aid for an evaluation. It could be your kiddo forgot to add the school on their FAFSA or the financial aid package is in your child’s portal just waiting to be viewed.
- Your child’s choice isn’t affordable for your family. In this situation, reach out to the financial aid office immediately and look into an appeal or compare your child’s other offers for a better financial fit.
- Your child is unsure about going to college. Feeling some anxiety about such a huge life transition is normal. If your child feels unusually overwhelmed about college or can’t pinpoint why they want to go, take some time to reflect on their concerns and consider alternate options like community college, gap year programs, military, trades, or work.
Delaying A Decision Is Fine, But Keep These 2 Essentials In Mind!
Trouble With Housing
If your child is pretty sure about their decision, but won’t be depositing on May 1st, check in with the housing department at your child’s prospective school to evaluate housing capacity and ask if all freshmen are guaranteed a spot in the dorms. I’ve had students who still had an admissions spot but found out their college’s dorms were full so they had to pivot.
Remaining Open Spots
Check in with admissions offices about their latest application and enrollment dates. Some colleges allow enrollment all the way through July, while others may only be able to hold a spot until shortly after Decision Day.
Ready To Share Your News?!
Join Michelle Obama and the Better Make Room crew for a virtual college signing day on May 7th and share your best Decision Day picture with the hashtag #collegesigningday to join in on social media channels.